however, on the contrary, i am not as competitive as most people are. living in a family where all your siblings makes you look demure is so not encouraging for your self esteem. i am been living all my life with the perception that my brothers and sisters are all cool and always ahead of me. well of course they are ahead of me by minimum of 5 years.
the point is that sometimes i really do hate competitions. especially in things that i really dont see any reason of competing behind it. things such as who is more good looking, more smarter than the other guys or even who's got more money in the bank. those things i believe is not fair sometimes for everyone to participate in and things that arent fair are totally not my groove.
i mean, it is something that is more subjective than other things. your looks, you can choose it at the first place! plus, it is something subjective, i might call miley cyrus as the most sexiest girl ever and some might want to say selena gomez is the one! no one wins in these types of competition.
as for the brains competitions, i agree that it might lead to something good such as your grades are increased and everything but personally, that type of competitions are just for nerds. face it, bill gates do not even need a degree to start off with his microsoft business, and mark zuhkerberg (sorry if i dont know how to spell his name) got lawsuits from his colleagues when he 1s started fb because he is such an asshole(this i got from the movie the social network).
the point is, being the smartest is not everything fellas! you can be the smartest and yet you might not get anything that you wanted. competitions are good sometimes but i believe that under some circumstances, it is going to breed more hatred than any benefits.
perhaps this is not true for everyone. it might be true for me. dont get me wrong, i am a competitive person. just that i am competitive for the things that i believe should have been a competition amongst people.
i am tired actually. can i take the day off from studying? maybe yes. thank you!
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